Dress Codes Explained: Black Tie, Formal, Cocktail & More

Dress Codes Explained

You’ve got the invite, now it’s time to figure out what to wear! A wedding dress code can be daunting to decipher at first (what’s the difference between black tie and black tie optional, anyway?!), but we’ve demystified the most common wedding dress codes so you can show up feeling confident in your outfit. From black tie to cocktail to beach, our wedding dress code guide will help you nail the perfect look.

(Pssst, this guide isn’t just for wedding guest dresses...these tips can be used for other events, like charity galas or work parties, too!)

Black Tie
Dress Code

dress to the nines for formal events

Note: Swipe on a bold red lip for a dramatic look

1. Accessories: Glittering statement earrings add glamour

2. Outfit: A full-length gown in a luxurious, satiny fabric hits the mark

3. Shoes: Tasteful heels

Black Tie Optional
Dress Code

understated elegance is key

1. Accessories: Statement earrings are the perfect finishing touch

2. Outfit: A tailored silhouette & feminine details create an elegant aesthetic

Note: Soft curls & subtly glam makeup elevate your look

3. Shoes: Metallic heels add an extra pop of sparkle

Cocktail
Dress Code

sophisticated & semi-formal

Note: A messy pony pairs perfectly with a slinky silhouette

1. Outfit: A velvet dress transitions smoothly into fall

2. Accessories: Slide in some bejeweled hair pins for a flash of sparkle

3. Shoes: Add some metallic heels for a burst of shine

Daytime
Dress Code

casual, chic & city hall ready

1. Accessories: Add a twinkly touch with glittering earrings

2. Outfit: A playful puff sleeve goes from ceremony to reception in style

Note: Play up your makeup with a bold lip & soft contouring

3. Shoes: Classic heels in a neutral tone (yes, we count metallics as neutrals too!)

Beach & Destination
Dress Code

easy & island breezy

1. Accessories: Add vibrant details like sparkling earrings or playful hair pins

2. Outfit: A flowy silhouette packs easily & goes from casual to chic

Note: For outdoor weddings, remember your SPF and sunnies!

3. Shoes: Embellished sandals are easy to slip on & off for beachy ceremonies